đ The Weekly Vibe: week of June 9-15
Time for a bit of a steady slowdown. Kicking off the week, Mars is moving into Taurus until July 21, which, frankly, is its least favorite place to be. Since Mars rules the part of us that takes action, we might feel especially risk-averse, needing more time to get ready to do something. Adding to this is the general lack of planets in the fire element too. On the bright side, it is giving us a bit more patience and perseverance.
Your mind, though, might be going 100 miles an hour with grand ideas this week, but there could be a couple clashes with reality. Itâs not necessarily a bad thing, but remember the devil is in the details sometimes.
âWhat is one small, sweet step youâre willing to take given what youâre seeing?â is an iteration of a question I ask clients during each coaching session.
The reason is that action is a natural bridge between vision and physical reality. Itâs a clear separator of a goal from a fantasy. Organically, our goals are full of worries and doubts, but action always allows us a shift from worrying to engaging with the goals.
The call for keeping it small makes it liftable though. What good are huge action steps that we canât take? When we keep action in small doses, we can stay in the here and now - not wait to take it at some point in the future, when a bunch of other stuff falls into place.
Think of going to the gym - you donât gain pounds of muscles from doing a two-hour workout once a month. You develop muscle by putting in a couple dozen of minutes a few times a week, even though the progress seems invisible at one given moment. Itâs the small action that builds momentum that gives us the confidence we need to create change.
As I mentioned in the weekly forecast, action in astrology is represented by Mars. Its current move into a new sign signals our collective attitude toward taking action as a concept and in some way, adds a layer to how we act toward the things that matter to us. As Mars slides into Taurus, weâre inclined to feel risk-averse and craving to have muscle memory in place before we do anything.
However, nothing will ever upstage your own Mars, the one found in your natal chart. Itâs important to consider the current weather as itâll color your mood, but itâs more crucial to be in contact with your automated tendencies, which are spelled out in your natal chart.
Our natal Mars sign reveals what drives us forward, how we assert ourselves in the world, and what we need to take authentic action. Understanding the position of your natal Mars gives you valuable insights into your unique motivational style and how to leverage it for success.
With that, time for another DIY!
What is Mars like in your natal chart? What does it need to get up and go? How does the part of you that takes action and expresses itself through doing show up?
Personally, with a Mars in Cancer, I always need to feel an emotional connection to what I am doing, and a relaxed, comforting atmosphere. I can work under pressure, but itâs never my best work. I also have to listen to my intuition - if something doesnât feel like the right thing to do at the time, the right thing is to not do it (not to confuse it with the natural discomfort that occurs when Iâm doing something big). Back in my early and naive career days, I thought I just needed to push myself to the limit of my abilities and grow a thicker skin. Now? When I start thinking about thicker skin, itâs my sign to GTFO. Leave this to Mars in Scorpio, or something.
Step One: Plug in your birth data here and generate a free natal chart.
Step Two: On the right-hand side you will see a list of planets and your Marsâ sign placement is indicated next to it. Thatâs your Mars Sign!
Now, onto the fun part! If your Mars is in:
âď¸ Aries: You're a go-getter who loves diving into new projects head-on. Embrace that natural enthusiasm, but remember to pause and strategize before leaping. Keep a list of small, achievable challenges to tackle when you need a quick motivation boost.
âď¸ Taurus: Slow and steady is your jam, and that's okay! You value tangible results and are willing to put in the time and effort to achieve your goals - just need a little bit more time to get going. Embrace your natural pace and focus on creating a comfortable, stable environment that supports your goals. Break big projects into smaller, tangible milestones, and reward yourself with sensory pleasures (like a delicious snack or cozy break) when you reach them.
âď¸ Gemini: You're a master of multitasking and thrive on variety. You're energized by new ideas. Lean into that natural versatility by keeping a diverse to-do list and alternating between different types of tasks. Buddy up with a friend or colleague who shares your goals, and keep each other accountable with regular check-ins and brainstorming sessions. Be mindful of scattered energy and practice follow-through.
âď¸ Cancer: You have an intuitive, emotionally-driven action style. You're at your best when you feel emotionally secure and supported. You're also motivated by a desire to nurture and protect. Create a cozy workspace that feels like a personal sanctuary, and surround yourself with reminders of your loved ones and cherished memories. When you're feeling overwhelmed, take a moment to connect with your intuition and ask yourself what you need to feel nurtured and motivated.
âď¸ Leo: You're motivated by a desire for self-expression and recognition, and you thrive in the spotlight. Tap into your natural charisma and leadership skills, but be sure to collaborate and share credit with others. Keep a "praise file" of positive feedback and accomplishments to review when you need a confidence boost.
âď¸ Virgo: Your superpower is your eye for detail and ability to break big goals into perfect bite-sized steps. Lean into that gift by creating detailed project plans and checklists that keep you on track. But remember, done is better than perfect! Practice self-compassion and celebrate progress over perfection.
âď¸ Libra: You have a collaborative approach to action. Seek out partnerships and team projects that allow you to flex your natural diplomacy skills. When you're feeling stuck or indecisive, talk it out with a trusted friend or mentor who can help you weigh your options and find a balanced path forward.
âď¸ Scorpio: Your intensity and determination are unmatched when you're pursuing a goal you believe in. You're motivated by a desire for deep transformation and truth, and you excel at overcoming obstacles. Channel that laser-focus into projects that align with your deepest values and passions. Trust your gut, but be willing to let go of control when necessary. Practice self-care and remember that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.
âď¸ Sagittarius: Your boundless curiosity and optimism are your greatest motivators. Feed that fire by regularly learning new things and exploring fresh perspectives. When you're feeling restless, take a mini-adventure or sign up for a class that expands your horizons. Embrace the journey, but remember to celebrate the milestones along the way.
âď¸ Capricorn: You have a disciplined, strategic action style. You're motivated by a desire for achievement and mastery, and you excel at setting and pursuing long-term goals. Use your natural planning skills to create structured roadmaps for success. But remember to pencil in some fun and rest too! Celebrate your hard work with rewards that help you recharge and stay motivated for the long haul.
âď¸ Aquarius: You have an innovative, unconventional approach to action. You're motivated by a desire to create positive change and progress, and you thrive on thinking outside the box. Use your natural ingenuity to find creative solutions and alternative paths to success. Collaborate with like-minded visionaries, but be sure to honor your own unique ideas and contributions. When you feel stuck, change up your environment or routine to spark fresh ideas.
âď¸ Pisces: You're motivated by a desire for spiritual growth and creative expression. Harness that by starting each day with a few minutes of visualization or journaling about your goals. Trust your inner knowing and let your imagination guide you.
Remember that your Mars sign represents your authentic approach to taking action. Play along and nicely with it - give it what it desires so the action-taking part of you shows up with ease, rather than through the âshoulds.â
How Might I Support You?
Your Mars sign is just one of the many elements that describe how you take action. If youâd like to understand more of how you can motivate yourself to start every day, where you excel or need to treat lightly, astrology is an incredibly precise tool for that and more.
Do you keep growing frustrated because you havenât been taking action on something incredibly important to you? Letâs get you out of that rut.
đ On a Lighter Note
đ Earlier this week I accidentally got coached on the importance of celebrating the small wins, which relates so well to taking small, consistent action. The energy of enjoyment is a natural form of energy, just like money or physical vitality. If all we do is take action without pausing for a moment and acknowledging ourselves, weâll end up at a point of burnout a lot quicker than at our goal. So, I ask you - what is one thing youâre willing to celebrate today? I am celebrating showing up courageously to an uncomfortable conversation.
𧚠Okay, this is totally off-topic and off-brand, but I donât want this magical gel to be gatekept.
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